About The Author
He never hands readers answers as if he owns them. Instead, he offers something rarer: the room and the steadiness to find their own. To think for themselves.
I WRITE BECAUSE I NEED TO SHARE WHAT I’VE LEARNED IN MY LIFE’S JOURNEY
I write always trying not to take a side. Not a party, not a movement, not a flag. I don’t accept pressure, dominant personalities, or the need to follow.
I write about people as I’ve studied them my entire life. Not two, four, six, or twelve years of study — sixty years of nonstop observation and taking notes. Especially from the many mistakes I’ve made myself. Those were my best lessons.
Some of what I observed: how fear gets planted, how obedience gets taught, and how much of what divides us was handed to us before we were old enough to question it.
I’m still searching for that book on perfect parenting we all need to read.
I have nothing against anyone’s faith, culture, or nationality. What I am against is division — any system, belief, or leader that draws a line and asks you to stand on one side of it and resent what stands on the other.
Diversity is not the problem the world keeps calling it. It is the answer. We were never going to agree with everyone on everything, and we were never meant to. We were meant to live alongside each other anyway. Don’t judge. Accept to be accepted.
So I speak: kindness, respect, compassion. Not as slogans — as daily practice. Say the kind thing. Give the benefit of the doubt. And hug more. Every day. Smile often. It costs nothing, and it changes the atmosphere of the world.
Bill’s Billisms
“Some books are read and leave you with thoughts. This one makes you think and leaves you thinking.”
I have been taking notes for sixty years of what I noticed, what I got wrong, and what nobody told me until it was too late to use it. This book is that collection.
It is not opinions. It is what held up. Some of it is funny. Some of it is hard. All of it was earned the hard way.
You will not agree with every page. You are not supposed to. I still have a lot to learn.
The Compass Broke, I Kept Walking
A Story of Collapse, Clarity, and the Courage to Continue
I was born into noise. Flatbush Avenue, Brooklyn — six of us in a railroad apartment over a music store, ninety dollars a month, my mother stringing plastic beads for thirty dollars a box. I was seven when I decided I wanted more. I didn’t know what more looked like. I just knew it wasn’t beads.
At sixteen I was running a two-million-dollar blood analyzer. At eighteen I went to Vietnam — eleven months, twenty-seven days. I came home at twenty to an empty apartment and a note on the counter, and I lay down on that floor and cried.
Then I built things. A fruit store I sold for half a million. A trucking company with twenty-six trucks. An import business moving three million pounds of coffee a year. A dessert company I took public at $11.50 a share. I lost all four.
I don’t have all the answers. Just a pile of scars. The first time I lost everything, I didn’t cry — I took notes.
I read everything that comes in. If a book landed, if a line stayed with you, or if you disagree with something I wrote — write to me. Readers, book clubs, event organizers, and anyone who has ever felt the pull of a question they were told not to ask — I’d be glad to hear from you.